For almost six years working as an educator in a community of recovery and there I met women who are victims of assault, abuse and violence.
The thing that amazed me is how you all feel guilty for the violence.
Flora 14 years suffers sexual assault by three men and today, in his early twenties, after having described the incident has been described as "stupid" for giving the men "too much confidence," as if he could take surface attitudes legitimize rape.
Flora From that day before any sexual intercourse took alcohol and heroin as not to "hear" what was happening to her.
Fauna is a young mother who has been abused in childhood by a family member as an adult and chose to take aggressive and violent men.
From his story is revealed as she has always been considered "obviously intended" to those men, so much to choose alcohol as an aid to pain and fear.
almost certainly Flora and Fauna would be resorted to drugs and alcohol regardless of the violence they suffered but I am sure that in their autobiographical tale would never have emerged convinced that he deserved the hand immediately.
These reflections are professional over time are married with the knowledge of Krav Maga, a system of self defense and intuitive, born in the first half of the twentieth century in Israel for the military today is proving to be an effective instrument of self defense for anyone who wants to feel more secure in daily life.
The project "Women's Safety" is based on the understanding that women who decide to learn the techniques of Krav Maga, discovering physical skills knowledge, become more confident in themselves.
fact we must not forget that a man who decides to turn to a woman with violence on the assumption that the victim will rebel ... ever. But what if the victim had to show resistance? The executioner would remain displaced and unable to defend the woman will have a better chance of freeing scappare.Con this article and would not want to argue that women who learn self-defense techniques will be free from aggression and violence but is sure to decrease the risk of being where victims and unfortunately this does not happen, knowing that it hindered his executioner will be crucial not to feel guilty than once and will facilitate the psychological recovery.
Thank you for your attention
Dr. Jessica Vanni
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